Couples Corner LGBT Roe Minaya

Radoykay Minaya – Same-Sex Divorce and Separation: What are my Rights?

Attorney Radoyka J. Minaya received her undergraduate degree from Skidmore College in Saratoga Springs, N.Y. and thereafter received her law degree from Nova Southeastern University in Florida. Ms. Minaya began her legal career as an Assistant Attorney General for the State of Florida and is now the founder of the Minaya Law Offices, PLLC. Her law practice centers almost exclusively in the area of family law, with a focus on LGBTQ-specific legal issues. The legal intricacies and complications in Florida surrounding same-sex unions, parenting, separation, and divorce can be overwhelming.

Couples Corner LGBT Roe MinayaAs not only an attorney, but a member of the LGBTQ community, and co-parent to two beautiful children, Ms. Minaya is not only professionally invested in ensuring that her LGBTQ clients have a clear and complete understanding of their legal rights and options, but also has a personal stake in these matters.

Ms. Minaya is also fluent in Spanish; a member of such organizations as legal Aid of Broward County and GLLN; and an avid foodie. She prides herself on dealing personally and warmly with each of her clients, and ensuring each is treated with individualized care and respect. She considers it a true privilege to be able to assist families in navigating their interpersonal relationships.

Read more about LGBTQ Parental Rights and Roe’s advice for couples considering divorce here and watch the episode below.

 

Carolann Mazza Collaborative Divorce

Carolann Mazza – Collaborative Divorce

Carolann Mazza is a family attorney and a Florida Supreme Court certified family law mediator who helps divorcing and separating couples handle their family conflicts in a healthier, private, and less expensive way. She works solely with couples who choose out of court process options to resolve their family dispute. Carolann believes the destructive nature of divorce and other break-ups, and the resulting unresolved conflicts, can lead to a vicious cycle of court involvement for the family. This is particularly damaging to the children. Processes such as Collaborative Divorce help keep the family out of court and allow them to resolve their differences with dignity, respect, promoting open and honest dialogue where emotions are recognized and addressed.

Carolann Mazza Collaborative DivorceIn her other life, when Carolann is not practicing family law, she runs, kayaks, paddle boards, and loves to do jigsaw puzzles. She is also learning Italian so she can understand what her husband is saying about her.

You can read more about Carolann’s recommendations for collaborative divorce on our blog, Stop, Collaborate, and Divorce.

You can watch Carolann’s webisode below and learn more about collaborative divorce!

 

 

 

 

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Elizabeth Edwards – Prenuptial Agreements

Elizabeth M. Edwards is a family law attorney and is certified as a Florida Supreme Court Family Law Mediator. Elizabeth received her Bachelor of Arts degree in psychology prior to attending Law School. Elizabeth’s background and training helped shape her understanding of the stress of separation, divorce, and the legal process. She utilizes that compassion and understanding with each and every one of her clients to help relieve the stress that the legal process causes.

Couples Counseling Coral SpringsElizabeth prides herself in her ability to settle complex cases without the need for prolonged litigation. However, when litigation is necessary, Elizabeth has the experience, knowledge, and skills to achieve positive results for her clients. Elizabeth is passionately dedicated to providing zealous and proficient legal representation in all types of family law matters.

Elizabeth is admitted to the Florida Bar and the United States District Court, Southern District of Florida. She is a member of the Broward County and South Palm Beach County Bar Associations, and is a member of the Florida Bar Family Law Section and Alternative Dispute Resolution Section.

Check out our recap of Elizabeth on The Couples Corner in Protect Yourself with a Prenup and watch her episode below.

 

Couples Corner Divorce or Mediation

Is Divorce the Only Option?

This week on The Couples Corner we had the pleasure to chat with Leisa Wintz, a family law attorney, about mediation as an option for couples who wish to divorce, and whether or not divorce is the only option. Leisa’s background is unique in that she holds a Master’s degree in Marriage and Family Therapy and worked as a mediator prior to becoming an attorney. Although it’s never pleasant to reach the conclusion that a marriage has come to end, the terms on which a couple separates can make a world of difference. Leisa discusses what mediation is and questions to ask if mediation is something you’re considering as you separate from your spouse.

Couples Corner Divorce or MediationIt’s important to note that the information Leisa shares is specific to the state of Florida; however, you can gain some insight on mediation and if you have specific questions regarding your state we recommend you consult an attorney in your state.

Why mediation?

Leisa shares that divorce through mediation is a common question couples have for her, mostly because individuals may not want a judge to make decisions about the situation. There are times when mediation will be the best choice and also not the best choice for couples. We all have preconceived notions of what we think divorce looks like; if you’re curious about your options, most lawyers will offer a free phone consultation and if you don’t like the first attorney you speak with, hang up and call another. Your lawyer should be your partner in this process and having a like minded lawyer who is on the same page as you will be your best asset. Mediation will consist of a third party, neutral individual who will help negotiate the terms of the separation. As Leisa says, in all good compromises, you’ve got to give up a something and if one person walks out of mediation feeling like he/she got everything he/she wanted, something went wrong.

For some couples, they want the divorce to amicable. Additionally, mediation is required in the state of Florida if there are children involved and you can’t settle. While it’s not required that you reach an agreement in mediation, it is required that you attend.One thing Leisa points out is that the results of a mediation will depend one two things: your mediator, and how nice you (or your spouse) want to be in the process. Should you take a lawyer with you to mediation?

That all depends. It’s not always necessary to bring a lawyer with you to mediation but Leisa recommends knowing yourself and knowing how you respond in situations. If you’re the type of person who can live with a decision and move on, maybe you don’t need a lawyer. If you’d rather have a very clear understanding of the how assets are divided and know what you’re entitled to, it may be worth having a lawyer there. It’s also important to remember that while many couples may start off with good intentions, things can change as the divorce progresses and it’s important to be prepared.  If you are contemplating divorce there are many things to consider.  The emotional, legal and financial aspects of divorce can be difficult on all involved.  There is also the option of Collaborative Divorce which we share on another episode of The Couples Corner.  

Allyson Tomchin

Allyson Tomchin – Co-Parenting for Divorced Parents

Allyson TomchinAllyson Tomchin is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, a Florida Supreme Court Certified Family Mediator, and a Qualified Parenting Coordinator in the tri-county area of Miami, Broward and Palm Beach Counties. Her strength lies in developing relationships with an eye toward reaching a goal. The unique element that she brings to her work is a total focus on you and your success. She is driven in her efforts toward helping her clients reach their maximum potential. Allyson has a private practice in Hollywood and Boca Raton, Florida. She is an Adjunct Professor of Social Work at Florida Atlantic University and a contributor to South Florida Parenting Magazine. She is married, has four children, and a Yorkie named King Harry.

Tammy Berman

Tammy Berman – Second Saturdays: The Impact of Divorce – Financial, Emotional, and Legal

Tammy BermanTammy Berman is a licensed mental health counselor that has been in practice for over 13 years. She graduated with a Honors Bachelor of Arts degree in Psychology from the University of Western Ontario in Canada, moved to Florida in 2001, and completed a Masters of Science in Mental Health Counseling at Nova Southeastern University. She has worked with clients suffering from severe and persistent mental illness, addiction, depression, anxiety, self-esteem issues, self injurious behaviors, family issues, and difficulties with life transitions. Recently, Tammy has devoted her time to working with individuals and couples in strengthening their relationships and in transitioning through the divorce process. She recently became a Supreme Court Certified Family Mediator, a Parenting Coordinator, and a Mental Health Facilitator of the Collaborative Process. She is committed to helping couples, individuals and families reduce the potentially damaging effects that a divorce can have on their well-being, family relationships, and quality of life. She currently practices in Plantation, Florida.

Check out our webisode with Tammy below and learn more about the impact of divorce on families.

Drs. Melissa Bridges and Paul Maione

Drs. Paul Maione and Melissa Bridges – Myths of Couples Counseling

Drs. Melissa Bridges and Paul MaioneDrs. Paul Maione and Melissa Bridges are licensed marriage and family therapists and co-founders of Couples on the Brink, a place where couples can get intensive help when they are in crisis and on the verge of splitting up. Over the last ten years they have helped hundreds of couples from around the country to repair, reconnect, and redefine their marriage or primary relationship. Their relationship changing intensive programs provide a viable option to traditional hourly counseling sessions for couples on the brink of splitting up.

Additionally, Drs. Maione & Bridges speak nationally and internationally at professional conferences in the field of marriage and family therapy and have appeared on numerous radio and television programs. Their work has been featured in several local news stories and they contribute as relationship consultants for CBS news here in South Florida.

Michelle Scharlop

Michelle Scharlop – The Benefits of Pre-Marital Counseling

Michelle ScharlopMichelle Scharlop is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with a private practice in Plantation, Florida. She has over a decade of experience in working with all types of relationships such as dating, premarital, married, parent/adult child and adult siblings. As a Relationship Expert she specializes in communication issues, conflict resolution, infidelity, infertility, blended families and life transitions. She is a clinical member of Amercian Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, an approved Premarital Provider  for Broward County and an Expert Therapist for marriage.com, a website dedicated to topics relating to marriage.
Michelle is happily married to her best friend for over thirteen years and is the proud mother of an amazing son. She loves working with couples, writing her relationship blogs and traveling with her family. You can read Michelle’s original blogs on her website www.PlantationRelationshipCounseling.com

Read Michelle’s reasons why you should do premarital counseling here and watch her clip below for more info!

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Sophie Frabotta – Self Love

Sophie Frabotta Self LoveSophie Frabotta (Fra-boat-a) is a life coach, spiritual entrepreneur, and possibilitarian. She has her Master’s Degree in Transpersonal Psychology with a specialty in Spiritual Psychology and works with six aspects of human existence: Body, emotions, mind, expression, spirit, and heart. (BE MESH)

Sophie is the founder of Awaken Life Coaching and specializes in teaching tools and solutions that awaken consciousness, create a life of empowerment, and open the door to personal freedom. She is known for the gift of naturally understanding what is going on inside of people, and helping them redirect their inner thoughts and feelings towards truth, optimism, and possibility!

She helps people understand how their life makes sense, whether it is what they want to live or not, she gets them in authentic touch with how they are contributing to their life and then helps them create what they are truly seeking.

She became passionate about the journey of self-development after she had her own life transformation and healed from anxiety, bulimia, and depression all of which resulted in a seventy pound weight loss and complete life transformation! Most importantly, Sophie encourages us to create a joyful life by accepting our true self, falling in love with who we are, and living life with an open heart!

Watch Sophie’s episode here!

Mediation Leisa Wintz

Leisa Wintz – Mediation and Divorce Options

Mediation Leisa WintzLeisa Wintz received a Bachelor’s Degree from the College of Charleston in Psychology in 2000 and immediately took her first public interest job as a case manager for a family homeless shelter. It was here that she first had the opportunity to advocate for her clients and speak on their behalf. In 2003, she began law school at the University of Miami and interned during her 1st year at the 11th Circuit, Domestic Violence Division. During this time, she found that much of her work and that of the attorneys she worked with lacked client contact. Disappointed, she requested a leave of absence in order take a few months to explore other career alternatives. During this time, she discovered Marriage and Family Therapy and was fascinated by this new, holistic and systemic approach to helping families in crisis, so  entered into a master’s program.

After graduating with her Master’s Degree, she became the Director of Parenting and Juvenile Programs for a local forensic counseling agency. In this position she worked extensively within the family, dependency and domestic violence court systems as an expert witness, court appointed evaluator, and court appointed group and individual therapist. While working in this capacity, she returned to and completed law school.

Immediately upon completion of her law degree, she began running the Broward Teen Advocacy Project (BTAP) through Coast to Coast Legal Aid. While running BTAP, Leisa had the opportunity to represent and advise over 200 family law and domestic violence cases in Broward County. It was a crash course in legal advocacy and an invaluable training tool for litigating, negotiating, and resolving family legal disputes.

Leisa left BTAP in 2010 and immediately opened a private law firm where her practice is focused on family law and dependency. Much of her practice is also mediating working as a guardian ad litem in family cases. Leisa has enjoyed much success in private practice and attributes that success to providing clear client guidance, individualized services, client focus and an office staff who provides excellent customer service. Our practice has grown and diversified over the last several years. While she remains committed exclusively to managing the family law and dependency divisions, her business partner focuses on real estate and estate planning.

Check out our recap of Leisa’s episode of The Couples Corner on divorce and mediation options here and watch her episode below!